"In order to move on, you must understand why you felt what you did and why you no longer need to feel it."
When you fall in love with someone at a certain age, mostly in your younger years you wouldn't think twice about how far the relationship will go. all you care about is falling in love with that person, and that is all that matters at the moment. the happiness of sharing your life with someone else, sharing secrets and intimate moments together. when you finally break up with that person, due to several factors, you start to wonder certain things like why you fell for that person in the first place. is it because of the physical attraction, or you felt like there was spark, and it just died? is that even love? because even the definition of love is questioned itself. what is love anyway. do anyone have the complete explanation on what love really is. maybe its the lack of intimacy. or the constant quarrels. or even misunderstanding. no matter what happened, why are we willing to lack go. does it mean, we don't love that person enough? because if its true love, we would want to fix the problem, because letting that person go hurts. but you didn't do anything. you just left. people can easily sympathize the idea of breaking up, and it is heartbreaking at first, but you can savor the opportunity to build a new relationship and discover new kinds of joy. after you got into a new relationship and is satisfied with it, the shadows of your past relationship begin to fade inside your mind. naturally. was the past relationship a complete waste? to infest months of beautiful memories together, and in the end it was all for nothing.
you need to keep in mind that maybe that is just how far you were meant to go with the relationship you had with your ex. we should realize that everything that happens in the past is not a complete waste. its a lesson, and we should learn from them with no regrets. that hopefully, our future love with someone new, does not end up like our past relationships that crashed and burned. the relationship that turned into ashes and wine. what we are experiencing currently in love is satisfyingly divine. but we need to keep in mind, that anything can happen. so at the moment, just enjoy the new love we built with someone new, and try our very best because that person may leave you too one day and she/he does not belong to you officially. your current relationship is the best relationship you may experience, cause it gives you hope after your first love and second love, and so on. that love can still blossom in your damaged heart.